Thanks for comments on the blog, here and elsewhere! If we can inspire anyone to head out for adventure, that is just great. There may be many obstacles, perceived or real, to tackle before any trip. It is easy to think that “others” don’t have the same problems as oneself. I am not denying that we are very privileged and fortunate to be able to take several months off, but so are many others in the Western world. Worries about money, work or health can be enough to prevent us from doing what we dream of. Mind you, I (Irene) had no big dreams about biking around for months on end. But I and Andreas knew, five years ago, that we wanted to take a break from the busy work life to travel before kids started school. We had a timeline behind a kitchen door, which reminded us to take small steps bringing us closer to that. But, as it turned out, my break from work came unplanned 9 months before this very trip. It was a tough time but once out of the woods, we grew stronger and I am so happy we have this time together. For me, travelling is mostly about that. Adventure comes naturally if one is willing to let go of the well known. The Weser radweg started after Hann. Münden. We followed it for 280km and six days, including a rest day in Petershagen. The weather was great the first day then rainy for a couple of days but the route was beautiful, easy and almost completely car free on paved roads. It wasn't so flat as to be boring and enough winding to keep interest up. It was very popular, without being crowded. Andreas reports he has never seen as many tourers in his life as here. Many of them were retired people, quite often on e-bikes. Some were out for the weekend, a few we talked to on multi-month trips. Families on multi-day trips were rare though. Wonder why. Navigation was easy, with lots of signs along the way. That was good, because we had been a bit frustrated with confusing signs and bike routes that took the "scenic", 10 times longer route through country sides or villages. Sometimes that's nice, sometimes you just need to move a distance. On the Weser we got to both move and enjoy fabulous scenery. Biergartens, cafes and restaurants along the way left no one hungry as it seemed; we had picnics as usual. It was easy to find accommodation of all types. We stayed mostly at campgrounds, but there were also hotels, hostels and private rooms, directly on the route. The German hostels, called Jugendherberge, were affordable and to our surprise, summer is their low season. We stayed two nights in one in Petershagen to have a rest day. We got the question if the kids ever get tantrums and how to handle them on the road. Yes, there are breakdowns, fights, boundary testing and so on, daily. Bedtime (especially in hotels) can evoke a strong urge to run off to a bar or at least to the washroom with a bottle of Underberg.. Parenting is not always easy at home and not easier when away. The difference is, here we are constantly together and that creates more friction. The other thing is that we all follow the sun rather than the clock, and the sun goes down late in this part of Europe in the summer. Therefore we adults get little time to ourselves, and we’re not good at taking alone time while one of us with the kids. The easiest time is while riding, because there is lots to look at and talk about. Our playground lunches are when I and Andreas get some time to our selves while prepping lunch (and coming up with strategies to handle the next outbreak of defiant behaviour). We don’t always have the same ways to do things. Arthur can drive Andreas quite mad by being super cheeky while I try to not laugh. I get mad too but for other reasons. To decrease fighting we always encourage them to run off and play at campgrounds. Their “kid exploration” time bring the best out of them (and us). As for discipline, the classical time out is not always possible to carry out on the road, but there has been times when we had to put a child outside of the tent for a while. The tent is our home so we can’t have them go rampant in there. It is a very small place to stay in so everyone need to be quite disciplined about their movements. Four year olds are not know for their controlled movement pattern. When the weather is good it is no problem, we only have to sleep there, but lately it has rained quite a bit so we’ve had to eat and spend more time in the tent. Moods go up and down, of course, I tend to be happier when it’s cool, or after I get a coffee shop break, Andreas when it’s hot, or after we pass a coffee shop without stopping. The kids always want shade when it’s sunny and vice versa. As an emergency crankiness antidote we take dextrose tabs, those work magic on the mood – for a short while. Now I understand why my mom kept a large box of dextrose in the pantry when I was a kid..
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Erika
8/4/2017 07:44:58 am
Underbart att läsa och kul att följa er resa!
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